Referral Roadmap Season 6 Episode 10 Show Notes

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How Relationships Still Win in a Digital World

Rubber Meets the Road: Practical Steps to Win in the Digital World

  1. Define Your Top 5 Referral Partners: Write down the five people or businesses who could send you the most ideal clients this year. Focus your energy on nurturing those relationships instead of trying to be everywhere.
  2. Create a Simple Value-Add: Give your partners something useful to share—a checklist, a guide, or a quick resource that makes them look good when they introduce you.
  3. Ask Clearly and Confidently: Don’t just say “send me referrals.” Teach people how to connect you. Example: “If you hear someone say they’re frustrated with ___, that’s a great time to introduce me.”
  4. Build a Follow-Up Habit: Every week, reach out to at least 2–3 partners just to check in, thank them, or share value. Relationships fade if you only call when you want something.
  5. Show Gratitude Publicly: Thank your referral partners in visible ways—on social media, in your newsletter, or even with a handwritten note. Recognition multiplies referrals.
  6. Track Your Referrals: Don’t just hope they come in. Use a simple spreadsheet or CRM tag to log who referred, what happened, and how you followed up. What gets tracked grows.
  7. Close the Loop: Always circle back to tell your partner what happened with the referral. It builds trust and shows you honor the connection they gave you.

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Athena Captain

Athena Captain is Director of Sales and Marketing at Turner & Son Homes, where her passion is building a referral-based company in a niche market. She has helped create a business model that allows Turner & Son Homes to become the “concierge” of building on land in Oklahoma. Athena has successfully led sales teams within retail, banking, and finally bringing her talent to bear in the construction industry. Athena has developed a prospecting system while at Turner & Son Homes that allows any sales professional to become a referral magnet. She will share her system in her upcoming book The Making of a Rainmaker, soon to be released nationwide. With the launch of AthenaCaptain.com, she hopes to help other sales professionals, business owners, and companies apply her proven systems to increase revenue through referrals. She was honored to be a finalist for Edmond Woman of the Year in 2014. She is active within her community as a Board member for Oklahoma Family Network, and she is on the Leadership team of Savannah Station Equine Therapy Program.