That Sh*t Doesn't Define You: Stories of Hope
Season 2 Show Notes
Episode one:
Topic: The Labels They Gave You
Resources:
- This season's resource guide - download at the bottom of this page!
- Book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessell van der Kolk
Episode TWO:
Topic: Breaking Generational Cycles Without Losing Yourself
Guest: Sheryl Moser
Resources:
- This season's resource guide - download at the bottom of this page!
- Connect with Sheryl Moser
- sheryl.moser@live.com
- Cell phone: 405-808-3039
- Palomar: Domestic Violence Resource in Oklahoma
- Wings of Hope: Domestic Violence Shelter / Resources in Stillwater, Oklahoma
Episode THREE:
Topic: The Moment You Said, “Not Anymore”
Guest: Jeff Gabelsberg
Resources:
- Connect with Jeff:
- Book: The Go-Giver
Episode four:
Topic: Faith, Fire, and Finding Your Way Back
Resources:
- This season's resource guide - download at the bottom of this page!
- Actionable steps from today's episode:
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Name What You’ve Drifted From
Ask yourself: “Where have I drifted?”
Is it your faith? Your core values? A dream? A sense of self? A relationship with God?
Write it down—name it with honesty.Practical Tip: Often, drift shows up where you feel most numb, lost, or disconnected. Pay attention to those areas.
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Reach Out to What Once Grounded You
Identify one person, practice, or place that once grounded you. Reach out or return to it this week.
Examples: A trusted mentor. A place of worship. A daily prayer practice. A nature spot. A journaling habit.Practical Tip: Don’t wait to “feel ready”—action often reignites connection and clarity.
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Reaffirm One Core Value
Ask yourself: “What do I still believe in, even now?”
Choose one core value—faith, integrity, compassion, courage, service, etc.—and reaffirm it in writing.Practical Tip: Each morning this week, read that value aloud and ask: “How can I live this today?”
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Take One Small “Return” Action
Choose one small step that reconnects you with your faith, purpose, or self.
Examples: Read one chapter of a spiritual book. Call someone who lifts your spirit. Revisit an old dream. Attend one service or meeting.Practical Tip: Progress is built in small, consistent returns—grace over perfection.
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Episode FIVE:
Topic: You Can't Heal What You Won't Face
Guest: Amy Singleton
Resources:
- Connect with Amy:
Episode six:
Topic: How to be Strong Without Being Numb
Guest: Barb Yeary
Resources:
- Connect with Barb
- Cell: 405-420-9300
- Email: barb.yeary@me.com
- Celebrate Recovery
- Feelings Wheel
- Crossings Church (Oklahoma)
- Regeneration
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